What Do We Make of Big Drama in Our Lives?
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What Do We Make of Big Drama in Our Lives?
13.08.2025


There are certain circumstances that are beyond our control—situations with no clear resolution or happy ending, except by accepting things as they are.
Until we reach that place of peace, all we're left with is the unfolding drama of human emotion.
I don't mean "drama" in a negative sense. Some circumstances are simply overpowering; they place us in difficult positions.
Sometimes, our responses are instinctive—rooted in the subconscious mind. They're reactive and automatic. We’re not consciously in control. And even when we are, our emotions often get the best of us—unless we choose to address and transform them.
At other times, the strong pull we feel comes from the soul that dwells in our body—our intuition and connection to something beyond.
There is a constant, subtle communication between our spirit and this human experience. We feel it through emotions that arise from the soul—our true home.
But that doesn’t necessarily make these inputs a priority in the way the world actually works. Often, the misalignment we experience is simply the result of different levels of awareness between individuals. The mathematics of reality just doesn’t add up. No matter how true something may feel outside the body, it often doesn’t matter.
Perhaps it’s designed this way.
So we experience grief and suffering because our inner system tells us something that cannot be enacted in the physical world.
It’s like trying to have a conversation with someone who doesn’t speak your language. No matter how hard you try to explain, the message can’t get through.
So why does this happen, and what can we do?
Maybe it happens by design. Maybe it’s the result of free will. Either way, because these emotions come from the most connected part of us—and they run both deep and high—we can find meaning in the exquisite drama of it all.
These are situations with no outer resolution—only a deep, deaf grief we carry. We can identify with it, feel like we are the victims, obsess over it.
Or we can surrender to it.
And the moment we lean into the pain, we may discover that something else is hiding on the other side: love and freedom.
And perhaps, we can do something even better.
We can make art out of it.
Because throughout all of history—past, present, and future—others have felt this too, and they will feel it again the moment the right note, image, or word reaches them.
Art, at times, is a rupture in the material world—a glimpse of something intangible. It is the only way to express what cannot be told, because it is a faint echo from beyond this world.
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